Why We Fail In Life | Reasons

 

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Why People Fail:

Some individuals don't have a clue what it is they need. Many define what they want by stating what they don’t want. As the result, they get exactly what they don’t want. Why because instead of focusing on what they do want they are focused on what they don’t want. As of late, I discovered this while having a disciplinary conversation with our eleven-year-old daughter.

 

The discussion was about her behavior and why it is wrong.

 

 

 

During this conversation I understood that my little girl didn't think she was doing anything wrong, she believed she was acting according to what was adequate for an eleven-year-old. I had to think about this for a bit because she did not understand that it is not OK to misbehave.

 

 I understood utilizing a model and getting some information about it.

robbed a bank

A Person Robbed A Bank:

I said, “An individual loots a bank, is gotten, and goes to prison. As soon as that person gets out they rob another bank, are caught, and go to jail again. Gets out, robs yet another bank, and goes to jail. What is your take on this?” “There’s a problem,” was her answer.

 

Then I said to her, “You are the person looting the bank”. The expression all over was absolute demolition. I then explained to her that when she misbehaves, it’s like the person robbing the bank.

 

The robber did not want to go to jail, but that is what he/she got, exactly what they didn’t want. That is the thing that you get each time you get into mischief; you get all that you don't need. The rationale was unpreventable.

 

If you center around the things you don't need, you will get what you center around. Now that might seem like it’s backward, but in reality that is exactly what many people do, and they don’t understand why they continually get the results they get.

 

Your brain draws into you that which is the focal point of your concentration. If your focus is on what you don’t want, you will get that which you focus on. While the above example is a bit extreme, the point is you attract to you what you think about.

 

My little girl said she was continually pondering not causing problems, what did she get?

How To Set Up Goal In Life:

Be explicit about what you need, too. It is not enough to say you want more money; you must be specific about the amount of more money you want. If you make $40,000 a year, your subconscious mind thinks that $40,001 is more money, which it is, and therefore you have reached your goal.

 

 Your efforts to get more fail because you’re now thinking I don’t want $40,001 I want more. If you want to lose weight, losing 1 pound to your subconscious mind is achieving your goal, you lost weight.

 

Now you might be thinking “I want to make more money and in the back of your mind more money means $50,000 a year, but all you say is more money. See the difference?

 

 You must be specific and say next year I want to make $50,000, or I want to lose 20 pounds in three months. You must know exactly what it is you want, or you will fail to get it.

 

Step-by-step instructions to make your fantasies a reality:

Step-by-step instructions to make your fantasies a reality:

You must know exactly what it is you want:

You should know everything about it, having what you need will cause you to feel. What having what you want will do for you, give you more status, more prestige, raise your standard of living?

 

 

You should know everything about it, you will stagger en route and feel like a disappointment.

Do you have a time frame in mind:

You wanted to mark the calendar by which you hope to have acquired the object of your concentration.

 

If you desire to fit those designer jeans by springtime, and you need to lose 15 pounds, set a date by which you expect to have lost the weight. Then, using a series of smaller goals, affirm to lose 1 to 2 pounds pre-week by mapping out a diet to cut out 500 calories a day.

How to make your goals measurable:

Initially begin because of the final result clearly in mind. You should start with a series of smaller obtainable goals. Success with these smaller goals fuels your confidence towards achieving a larger goal. Then have something to gauge your success by.

 

 Starting with the result, work backward in detail until you get to the starting point where you will set out to achieve your goal. This gives you the exact steps you need to take to achieve your goal.

 

Each step should lead you closer to obtaining your wanted result. This turns into your ruler, to verify whether you are on course.

How To Set Goal Always Write Out Your Goals:

Writing your goals out is another way to check if you have strayed from the course. It gives you something to follow. Write your goals out and read them daily.

 

We have billions of thoughts per day, and a goal is just another thought. Writing it down helps to keep that thought in mind instead of it being replaced by one of the other billions of thoughts.

 

It also helps with your commitment to your goal. Seeing it daily reaffirms it in your mind.

How To Have A Successful Partnership:

One way to ensure success with obtaining any goal is to have a partner. Someone who will encourage you and help you stay on course.

 

It’s important to have someone who will stand by you and not someone who will try to discourage you. Champions Evolution is a coaching service that helps people set goals and achieve them.

 

They deal with confidence and self-esteem issues, and they show you how to believe you can have what you want.

Evaluate your progress:

Are you making headway? If not, why not? Adjust your plan to meet your long-term goal. Are you meeting your weekly or monthly weight loss goals? If not, determine what might be the problem.

 

Add another half hour of walking each week, or cut out second helpings.

Challenge Yourself, Put Your Self To The Test: 

That implies buckle down, propel yourself and feel a little inconvenience if it implies assisting you with arriving at your objectives. Understand and acknowledge that change is not easy.

 

If it were, you would have already achieved your goal. We tend to revert to previous behaviors when change gets difficult. Now is the time to develop new life behaviors.

You have an option in what you get or don’t get. You choose to have success, or you choose to have failed. There is nothing in between the two but you.

 

What you choose to think about will be what you get. Focus on failure and no amount of effort will bring you the success you desire. The thing to do is focus your mind on success.